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Julio Torres posted a condolence
Thursday, October 26, 2023
What blows my shit is my man was loved by everyone when he was a live he was a go to for anything to see to that everyone that ran to him didn’t even leave a message is fake and I use to tell him fake love is love we do t need love me while I’m here and love me when I’m gone RIP SLICK
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Nephew Latin rider posted a condolence
Thursday, October 26, 2023
Man I love this man we click as soon as we was introduced family need anything reach out Julio
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Pamela Anthony lit a candle
Tuesday, October 24, 2023
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To Nigel – I wanted to offer my deepest condolences. I am truly sorry for the loss of your son. My heart is with you and your family.
Pam Anthony
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Mikkyla McLean posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 24, 2023
Jody....the past few weeks have been incredibly hard, and to see how many people have been mourning you speaks volumes to who you were as a person. If someone had told me a decade ago that this day would come, I wouldn't believe it because you were larger than life. You had a laugh and smile that lit up a room and the warmest brown eyes that it was hard to not get lost in.
I've been reliving the memory of what was, but after the last ten years, here's what I know for certain: you had a heart of a gold. Behind all those muscles was a giant teddy bear. You loved your family more than anything, and the loved ones that became family. You showed up in the moments that matter and everything in between. You were a 3 PM call as much as you were a 3 AM one. I experienced how much you lived life to its fullest - you made the most of every second, every minute, every hour, every day. You were resilient. My heart broke with yours watching you experience some painful moments life threw your way, and in your Jody way you pushed through them all. You loved to draw, at the time we met you loved reading James Patterson/Alex Cross books, you had a knack for comedic relief, you loved the Baltimore Ravens...I remember we were arguing the day we went to watch the Steelers-Ravens thanksgiving day game in 2013 and you tried everything to get me to laugh but I was HOT...and even as mad as I was sitting next to you, there was nowhere else I would've wanted to be but next to you. I remember when you first started riding. You came alive on your motorcycle and I still remember that first ride.
Watching the man you'd grown into....you were loving, kind, hilarious, smart, and incredibly protective of those you loved. You were loved so deeply by many and I truly hope you knew and felt that. Instead of our usual talks, I feel a little peace knowing our last convo was me checking in on you. You knew how much you meant to me. I've been reading through some of our older messages and you told me to that whatever I do, I make sure it keeps a smile on my face. I'll make sure to do just that.
Grief is such a terrible thing to feel, but how lucky am I and everyone else grieving you, that someone so special existed that the pain of losing them hurts so deeply? I cherish every bit of the last decade and the one thing we both knew was that no matter where life took us, at the core of us was a strong friendship. I hope you're finally at perfect peace. I love you and will miss you always porkchop.
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Asaad morman posted a condolence
Monday, October 23, 2023
Me and Jody were two tech guys that were into a lot of the same things. I'm definitely going to miss our talks about life, Cyber, motorcycles and just anything we felt talking about. He definitely left an impact on my life and I will never forget you brother. Your legacy and the impact you made will live on. Love you my brother. Until we meet again!!!
Asaad Morman
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Monday, October 23, 2023
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Kayla Bell posted a condolence
Sunday, October 22, 2023
Spence,
I pray you are finally at peace. You will always be remembered no matter what. Your presence, love, and kindness will forever be with us. Rest for now. You will forever be in my heart, until we meet again.
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Marilyn uploaded photo(s)
Sunday, October 22, 2023
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To Nigel, Cici and Family:
In the shade of grief, I extend my sympathy,
As the family and love ones- gather today,
To honor Jody Spence, who's gone away.
A soul so bright, a love to family; so true,
In our hearts, forever, your spirit will brew.
Like an African proverb, wise and old,
Your story's in our hearts, a tale well-told.
In the embrace of sorrow, love's the key,
In our hearts, Jody Spence, you'll forever be the love of a father Nigel, Family and Friends.
Though we part ways, in this solemn space,
Let's remember the joy, your warm embrace to those you gave life meaning. In the midst of sorrow, love remains,
A tribute to Jody, amidst our tears and pains.
In our hearts, your spirit will reside,
As we journey forward, side by side.
Rest in peace, dear Jody, you're free now, you see,
You're a cherished memory, like an African proverb's decree.
Love, Marilyn
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Shaakira Moss posted a condolence
Saturday, October 21, 2023
Jody,I was so saddened to hear of this news. I had the pleasure of meeting Jody in middle school and knew him through high school. Jody was always fun to be around and had that slick mouth lol. I can still hear him calling me “forehead” LOL. This is such a terrible tragedy and even more terrible because a young bright light was lost. Jody i pray that you are resting peacefully. I pray that whomever did this to you is brought to light and justice is served. You deserve that. I pray that your family finds peace and solace in such a dark time. You were too good of a person always. May God bless you and may you have eternal peace my dear friend! RIP Jody
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Carmen Johnson posted a condolence
Friday, October 20, 2023
Baby Boy Jody,
I can’t stress it enough how much you are going to be missed and loved. There’s so many great memories from high school to just recently that I will always cherish forever. One of our last convos was about being proactive with our families and enjoying life a little more so I guess I should take our advice and live up to our word. Had I known the last time I saw you would be the last time, I’d hug you a little tighter and a little longer. I’d say I love you as many times as I could but I know you know how much I cared and loved you.
Until we meet again ♥️
Xoxo, Carmen Johnson
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Ray posted a symbolic gesture
Friday, October 20, 2023
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May Jehovah continue to make you and family strong and continue to rely on him always Ray and Carmen Collins
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Jocelyn Williams uploaded photo(s)
Friday, October 20, 2023
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My condolences to whomever saw the Jody we love. I write this on behalf of my family, as Jody’s aunt and in a sense sister. Jody came when I was 14 and so though I was first Ti-Ti, then Aunt Joc, soon due to our comfort and bond, I became forever just Joc.
Jody’s entry into our lives immediately changed our family, bonding us, filling the house with love . “Who has the baby!??” “ Look at him smile!” I got locked OUT the house if I came home knocking and Jody was asleep. “Don’t wake the baby!” - Our baby.
His early days were sloppy, sweet cheek kisses and brushing his curls; he was dressed fine and always held close. Soon came toddler years and his favorite cowboy boots and a fascination with running through the house on all fours, stopping suddenly at your feet and roaring.
Elementary school brought Jody to be my friend, no longer going through my room ripping things up, but cherished car rides here and there. As soon as I was married he came every New Year’s Eve to spend with me for numerous years where I could spoil him silly and he could stay up all night. Jody was smiles and warmth, jokes and silliness, all boy!
Jody’s teenage years brought me to enduring his reminders of my height as he grew taller and taller over me. His joy at looking down on me! Though he looked like a big guy, I was still needed and remained only a call away so that I may save the day as he went through growing pains or at least be a safe place. I would take delight in hearing every word of what boyish things he and his friends may be up to, I was watching him grow and change before my eyes and loved every minute of it.. He was Big Cousin to Ava now, always giving her love, protection, and teasing.
As a young adult, Jody emerged ready to explore and define his own path , but along with this independence, football weekends, videogames and job exploration, he always checked in, came with big bear hugs and ripped my macaroni and cheese. Soon Joe and I were needed in the way of offering our home and we did not hesitate. The thrill of having my brother-nephew-friend live with us for three years. We had amazing moments! We played, grew closer, worshiped, watched movies, took walks together, shared secrets of our hearts and talked through family challenges. He watched baby Cort who was never far from Jody’s arms even when I was home, picked Ava up from school, ate my food, and worked out with Joe. What a joyous time (Even when I had to say don’t you come to this house at this hour!)
Then came the day Jody got his first motorcycle. He was a man, no longer reliant on me. Jody quickly began new adventures, came new apartments, new travels, and new romances, a job trajectory was identified and he fed his love of openroad. But, he always called, visited, supported, gave hugs, sent an anecdote or joke, and always told me he loved me.
Every day I saw Jody was a day of joy for me. He is such a superstar to me with his beautiful slightly crooked smile. My precious Jody loved every single member of our family, and though challenged by life's way of “lifing”, always kept goals and dreams before him - a lesson I will always hold dear. He was such a good friend, not made for this world. Jody leaves beautiful memories in my heart, as you can see. They are locked in and I feel them with every breath.
Our Jody. These last week’s I saw him show up for our family with our new baby Leo, for my personal family unit, and most importantly, for his mother. We long for him now, our gentle giant. The hole that is left is significant, it is cold and frightening. But I do pray we each are able to hold on to 31 years of his gift giving of humor, charm, gorgeousness,strength, sensitivity, love, sense of adventure.
I love you. And he would say back, “I love you, too.”
Joc
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Darryl Carter posted a condolence
Friday, October 20, 2023
Farewell 'Nephew'... Sorry you went away so soon. May Jah keep you in His memory...
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Tash Wil posted a condolence
Friday, October 20, 2023
Jody was a good man; and he was funny and real to his words… He truly was a one of a kind guy and I will miss him…. He definitely left an imprint of himself and will always truly be apart of my world… I am thankful I have met him..
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Wanda Lainez planted a tree in memory of Jody Spence
Friday, October 20, 2023
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Horace & Orlene Barnes posted a condolence
Friday, October 20, 2023
To Jody’s family:
May you all find comfort in the loving arms of our God Jehovah while you await the future resurrection when Jesus will call and Jody will answer.
John 5:28,29: “Do not be amazed at this, the hour is coming when all in the memorial tombs will hear his voice and come out…….”
Our deepest sympathy,
Your friends,
Horace & Orlene Barnes, Florida
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Sheryl Douglas posted a condolence
Friday, October 20, 2023
Dearest Nigel & Family,
I would like to express my deepest condolences on the loss of your son, Jody. I sincerely apologize for not being able to be there in person to offer my support during this difficult time. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you, and I pray that God provides comfort and solace to your entire family. May you find peace in the knowledge that Jody will always remain in your hearts as a guardian angel.
With heartfelt love,
Sheryl Douglas and family.
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Daphne Cover posted a condolence
Friday, October 20, 2023
To the Spence Family,
May you take comfort in the hope of seeing Jody again in the resurrection. (Acts 24:15) We send you our deepest sympathy.
Your friends,
Daphne, Conrad & Nigel Cover
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Nicole Polk posted a condolence
Friday, October 20, 2023
Jody, Ahmir and I will miss you dearly…. I literally just spoke with you a few months ago about finding a new home…. I promise to be there for your mom always.
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Friday, October 20, 2023
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For strangers that never felt like strangers..
Jody and I never met. At least not in the traditional sense anyway. Yet, oddly enough, life’s direction is what helped us cross paths. I think it goes without saying how lucky we all were to be able to experience a mild fraction of his “presence”. Our friendship was easy, it wasn’t filled with the drama and egotistical pride that often damage most bonds. To be honest I don’t have a lot of friends. You see from my particular life’s beginnings I've always been alone. I never wanted to be but sometimes that’s just the card that you're given and its up to you on how to make it your best hand. Again it’s true that Jody and I have never met. However, I’m grateful for my friend of over 6 years that sprinted with kindness, boldly genuine, and had a smile that would light up some of my darkest days. Although we never met, he intentionally made me feel welcomed, seen, and heard in ways I’d hoped those closest to me would have considered. Intentional Consideration is my new favorite love language. “When someone pays attention to details & goes the extra mile to make life just a little bit easier for you”. Yes, I am so thankful for his presence in my life. Although my time with him was much smaller compared to others it was weighty in power. But are we really surprised? No. Cause thats just the kind of person Jody [Slick, Slickfila, Christopherrrrrr] Spence was & I am eternally grateful for him being “here”.
See you later stranger..
-AsianMarie
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Brittney Suarez posted a condolence
Friday, October 20, 2023
To know Jody was to love Jody,
I've been fortunate enough to have been friends with Jody since middle school & wouldn't trade a minute of our time spent together. Jody was filled with so much life & laughter... that's how we spent most of our childhood and teen years laughing! He was so loyal and loving to his friends/family and always spoke about his little brother all the time!
He was honestly a kind, smart and overall amazing person to be around. I will miss all of our talks/ roast sessions and just the general fun we would have throughout the years. Ill always remember what you said to me Jody and it always stuck with me that we need to enjoy the time we have while we have it. That is simply it, we cant control the unfortunate events that take place in peoples lives, but what we can do is be present and enjoy the memories we make with one another. Its hard to fathom that we will never speak again, but I know in my heart you have never left us. If anything you are here to guide & protect your family and friends through this crazy thing we call life. I couldnt think of a better guardian angel than you. I love you and will miss you more than you could ever imagine. This has been a tough loss on all of us. Your memory lives on through all of us. Sleep in peace Jody.
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Thursday, October 19, 2023
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Thursday, October 19, 2023
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Diane Levy posted a condolence
Thursday, October 19, 2023
Dearest Jody,
May the memories of your smile comfort all who knew you.
Rest in Peace
Know you will never be forgotten
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